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Anyway, I treasure his introversion - it balances with my extroversion quite well. Dad calls mom a week later and she didn't remember who he was. He's that guy that sits there quietly at the party, but when the opportunity arises, his quips are absolutely pant-pissing hilarious.
She agreed to see him again and long story short they've been married forever and still act like they're in puppy love. My boyfriend is fairly shy, while I'm generally outgoing (though I like my quiet nights in.) I love that he's shy. He's more of an observer, which is nice, because he picks up on subtle things.
But then you’ll remember that lots of men think lots of arbitrary crap is masculine, like overly-hoppy craft beer or wearing boat shoes with socks. He shows his love in way more practical, personal ways.
Sure, he won’t go on and on about how hot you are all the time (which isn’t even indicative of a great guy, tbh).
There are men out there who don't have a negative image of themselves or their bodies or their careers, but simply prefer choosing their words wisely. On the flip side, just because you are outgoing, talkative, and friendly, does not automatically correlate to you being confident.
There is a difference between being shy and being introverted. I can handle introversion, but not shyness in a partner.
Being shy means you potentially have difficulty with interactions with others, anxiety issues, problems dealing with social situations, etc.
He will, however, snag limited tickets to a concert you’d otherwise forget about because you were too swamped at work.
All of that on TOP of telling you he loves you, in that charmingly timid way of his.15. You know him getting stuttery around you or getting so nervous that he actually falls UP a staircase (like my boyfriend did on our first date, true story) just means he is full of the warmest feelings for you. You’re with him because, deep down, you’re probably a little shy too.
-- nothing remotely sexual or even suggestive) up against him while we were watching a movie, he started shaking.