Am dating much older man
Hence, the phrase “men get better with age.” We won’t talk about what happens to women as they age here…Today, men don’t have to go out and hunt food. So, the “security” that women seek is mostly thought to mean money.Sorry, but the sad truth is that women are attracted to wealth.
Since men hit puberty later, and their hormones cool down a lot later, it is only logical that women worldwide have always sought out men a few years older than them.
Because of this, I was drawn to people like my best friend, who was dynamic and bold. I was causing trouble, making things difficult for everyone. " my friend whispered as we walked back to the car with the guys a few steps ahead. "Like we were supposed to be boyfriend and girlfriend, or something." "Well," she said slowly. I'd completely accepted her romance with an older guy as normal, even destined. When he wasn't upset, he was in kindness overdrive, buying me things: a gold necklace with a floating heart, stuffed animals. "." My own voice — big, firm, filling the space — was a surprise to both of us. When I turned 21, I remember making a point, regularly, to look at teens and ask myself whether I'd want to hang out with them, much less date one. As a teen wishing to be an adult, it is easy to get in over your head. That if something feels wrong, that's all the reason you need to get out of there.
She was the one who things happened to, the starting point of every story. I grew to dread the moments we were alone, especially when I needed a ride home at the end of the night to make my curfew. I'd been quiet for so long, worried about hurting his feelings and the ripple effects of whatever actions I took. You don't need to offer an explanation, even if someone asks you for one. You can't just hang out with a guy and not expect him to get ideas, I told myself. Especially for girls, who are often taught that being polite and sweet should override all other instincts. The teen years loom ahead and I've experienced too much to rest easily. Don't worry about being nice, or hurting someone's feelings: they'll get over it. You don't have to wait, I want to tell her, until you have no choice.
In fact, the idea that older men are more financially stable is flawed.
As The Frisky points out, an older man might make more money, but he probably has to pay alimony, child support, college tuition for his other kids, and stash away some cash for his imminent nursing care.
Some of the other reasons commonly cited for women dating older men is that they are better in bed, more chivalrous, have better apartments, more ready to have children, are patient, and more assertive.